How To Stop Comparing Yourself To Other Bloggers

This is a very common mistake most of us do of comparing our lives with others. That’s what depresses us the most, grass is always greener on the other side. Very rightly said by Marquis de Condorcet, “Enjoy your own life without comparing it with that of another.”
Every one has their set of strength and weakness no is born with only strength so if you are comparing others strength to your weakness you are doing no good to yourself and that’s what makes you feel low.
We see what they show us on Instagram but do we actually know what they might be going through in their daily life. Life is not easy for anyone. We are the one responsible for our own unhappiness and a drop in our self-confidence. I know of people who are just great at their artwork, podcast or showcasing their lifestyle that really doesn’t mean you have to feel bad or jealous about it. That will not be a fair comparison if you are good writer go and find out are they good at that, or are they capable of doing what you can do everyone has a hidden talent then that’s a fair comparison you do to yourself. See how much you have to offer people with your writing skills.
Yes now the question arises after good content people are still attracted to lifestyle story. Its because everyone wants a stress buster. So the point I am trying to say is you may be a good writer but you need to find out what is an engaging content what are your audience looking for.
Don’t focus on where you rank in comparison, life is not a competition it is a journey. I know of blogger who tried divide and rule Funda and the simple reason was comparison and jealousy. But when you try to criticize others to make yourself better you are not benifiting from that rather creating enemy. Focus on your journey rather than trying to pull down someone else. Be happy with what you have and praise yourself that you can do it and you have done it and you’ll find contentment. Compare yourself with you.

Do comment below your thoughts & how you overcome this anxiety?
#bowtie_and_lipsticks #lifeisajourney
#bloggerslife #mumbaimoms #stopjudging #stopcomparing #growyourown

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