Whether Boy or Girl

Lately I have been reading this or hearing from many that they feel lucky to be a mother or father of a daughter.
And you ask any one who is pregnant what do you want they say a girl. And just in case if anyone says they want a boy, you’re judged. What is wrong in expecting a boy. And are mothers who deliver a boy are not lucky thats what you mean by saying lucky are those who have a daughter. Just give it a thought mommies.
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Look at the fear you have created in women’s mind. I know of someone who is pregnant and almost nearing her delivery and had a conversation with her. Asked her what was she expecting she said girl. And then started asking me my symptoms. I got a hint of what was it. I told her then you know what I wanted a boy and her reply to that was actually even I want a boy. See the amount of fear we fill in the mind. A public fear of saying I want a boy. However, from the first day of my pregnancy if I was asked what was my want I always said a Boy however my husband wanted a Girl. So that can be given a second try. However, jokes apart.
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Being a mother is the most beautiful and precious thing. A women feels complete after being a mother. Whether you deliver a boy or girl the pain of raising both of them is almost same.
Infact, I think raising a boy is more difficult because we are raising a husband and father of tomorrow. Raising a boy right is very important. So why such thoughts that parents of daughter are lucky. Being a mother itself is you are lucky.
A mother shares the most strongest bond with her child.
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Have you seen the struggle of people who can’t conceive or go through so many treatments just to see that little life growing them. All they want is to be a mother.
Everyday is a battle just to hear those little heartbeat but again and again they fail. I have seen those painful thoughts written beautifully by a lady when the embryos can’t survive anymore. Months after months her hope of conceiving. That breaks you to the core.
▪️Infertility feels out of control.
▪️Infertility feels like everyone around is getting pregnant.
▪️Infertility feels hopeless.
▪️Infertility feels like no one understands what you are going through.
▪️Infertility feels you are broken and lonely.
▪️Infertility feels life is only unfair to you.
▪️Infertility feels to stay away from the world.
▪️Infertility feels everyone around you would ask when are you planning for a baby.
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So ain’t we lucky that God has given us this beautiful gift of being a mother to beautiful healthy baby whether its a boy or girl..
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6 Comments

  1. Very few speak their mind when asked do u want a boy or girl ? I feeel lets not ask only. She is pregnant and would b delivering soon. We would get to know:
    And yes we have our own daughter or son then we are lucky !

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